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The BluePrint To A Happy Healthy Relationship.

Taking this business class on managing conflict has me really thinking and thinking of conflicts I have had in my past & how responding when angry or stressed isn't the best remedy.

I think that you have to follow a certain way of thinking and reacting when you are in a relationship. You always hear the saying don't go to sleep mad when it pertains to relationships. I think that you shouldn't respond to things that can make conflict when mad. It's about being mature and thinking before you speak- or before you react.

Match their effort- there is nothing worse than being in a relationship putting in all the work and getting nothing in return.

Respect their hustle- you should always be the first to support them in all they aspire to do in life. Supporting their dreams and ambition- I know for a fact is the way to a man's heart. Nothing is worse than being excited about something and it not getting the reaction you expected from the people you love.

Protect their Heart- their heart is yours you earned it SO PROTECT IT!

Value their loyalty- this is a big one a lot
Of brothers get money- get successful- get promoted- and leave that loyal woman for some new THOT.... Ludicrous as it sounds it actually happens. Reward her if she's been down with you since day one when you get on show her the world. There's no price tag on loyalty and there shouldn't be for her loyalty towards you.

Uplift their spirit- A wise man once said the power of a man is the smile on the face of the woman next to him. Couldn't be more true-we laugh- we love- we fight- we argue- we laugh again. Anyone who knows me personally will tell you there's something wrong with me and the things that come out of my mouth. Carry who you are into your relationships at all times. Be silly together laugh together make fun of each other those are the best relationships.

Love Unconditional- YES you don't turn that love on and off when you feel fit. Unconditional genuine love has no border- color- price tag- it's priceless..


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