Most of all peoples issues stem from not staying in their own lane. It's almost like people jump out of their lanes and look for drama instead of doing them and living their lives. Why add stress to your life and put more on yourself than you should? Because people have serious issues with minding their own business people are always worried about what the next person is doing. You are your own person and you control yourself only you can't control the world. This also stems from people holding onto the past and keeping grudges based on events in the past. That is not staying in your own lane, that is being childish and petty. Me personally I have build my own lane and I'm not letting anyone over.