It's sad to say, but as a grown man I can recognize when I'm in the wrong. In all honesty up until a year ago I was chasing all the things in life that don't matter at all.
What was I chasing you ask? Chasing nothing actually, what I felt I was missing in life was actually right in front in me. What I realized is that the grass isn't always greener and in order to succeed in life you have to let go of what you think you are missing and focus on what you are actually missing that is right in your face! They say live and learn well I have learned!