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Not Perfect But Pretty Close!!

No one is perfect nor can they claim to be. But I feel like if a man works his ass off, yet still makes time for you throughout the day he's pretty close. You never know how someone's day is going or how they feel unless you are with them. He could be having the worst day ever yet never take it out on you. We all sin we all make mistakes,but if a good man is going to have to constantly relive his mistakes,eventually enough is enough. You live you learn, there is that one instance that makes the really smart people learn more than others. 

I after 2013 have had the learning curve of all curves. I learned I'm missing nothing, and I learned that I can walk away from the comfort of easy money after 4 years. 

So why am I still living in 2013?

I have tried each day to be a better person,but it's like your effort is never good enough. 

Overthinking is gonna be the downfall of every one that does it. 

If a man comes home every night straight from work. 

Leaves his phone/iPad  out to be viewed all day. 

Sleeps in bed with you. 

Works & goes to school full time. 

Pays his own bills. 

Is a great father,you don't have to force him to be. 

Ask yourself what are you looking for? Why are you searching for a problem?

A good man although flawed can only be pushed for so long, most men I'll say 95 percent don't do any of the above. 

Maybe you're used to him doing all the above, so what happens when this stops cause of your own insecurities think about it!

Vivir Mi Vida


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