I'm not going to sit here and tell you that I am perfect.
I do know that at the end of the day you can lose everything you have as a man, but you never lose your word.
Being a man is an everyday learning and growing process.
I have been practicing the last 9 months to do exactly as I said I would do.
I used to have an issue with wanting to please the world,in that moment I realized you can't please everyone.
You can only do you & keep your word.
If you live by your word backed by your actions you will find yourself not only happier, but the people around you being happy.
As a man we owe it to our women and our families to live by our word. Real women have heard and been through it all, they want to see actions. When you make a promise and that promise is kept, it gains her trust. If she trust in you, there is a great chance she will trust you with her heart. I believe that doing exactly what you said you were going to do, can and will save a relationship. The key aspects of a relationship are trust, love, devotion, but mainly communication.
If there is no communication, there is no relationship.
If your intentions are stated clearly and you back your word in actions, your relationship will not fail.
COMMUNICATE!!! But back your communication up with real genuine actions.
Say what you mean and mean what you say.
Don't give her a reason to not trust you.
Although trust can be earned back in due time, being in a relationship where there is no trust is dead weight.
We as men have to trust our women enough to let them in 100 percent.
We shouldn't feel the need to hide anything, believe me if you are 100 with her she will be 100 with you. Your woman at 100 percent is a better rider than some of these dudes in the street that you feel are your a-1 since day one.