Let me start by saying this only a boy doesn't know what he wants in life, this is a fact. A real man has a plan & usually doesn't stop until it's attained.
*Respect Yes we like to be respected a simple thanks for dinner & a hug does just that. We shouldn't take these little things for granted or they will stop. Then you find yourself saying "why don't we do this anymore. If a man ask you to respect his wishes & you don't you can probably expect to find yourself on the curb.
*Believe in Us yes men need you to believe in us it motivates us nothing is more awesome than knowing you have someone at home that has your back and believes in you even when you doubt yourself. This can not be taught you either have it or you don't.
*Respect our past whether it be children from a previous relationship or he was in a gang whatever you have to respect his past to know where he's going. If he has children consider it a blessing that you have a man in your life that is a stand up father. If he was in a gang don't judge him, where I come from our neighborhood was you either with us or against us & where your mama paid rent whether gang affiliated or not that was your gang to rival neighborhoods. Some had no choice you aren't God why judge?
*Pick him up never talk down upon him Ladies you know you hate nothing worse than a man that thinks you aren't equal so why when you get mad do you talk down to your man? I'll tell you it's all in about how you feel about yourself. Not always but in most cases I think women talk down to their man cause in the back of their mind they think they aren't pretty or he could do better. But stop and realize you are good enough & although your man is far from perfect he sees himself in you wanting you & loving you for you.
*Sex On Demand that's right I said it listen ladies every morning when you are showering remember it's yours but it's technically his as we'll so if he wants to jump in the shower & put the tip in real quick your ass needs to be ready. #RealTalk the shower the kitchen the car it's on "you ain't gotta take your panties off just pull em to the side" LOL
*Good Behavior blowjobs are welcome always you know ladies you point out what we do wrong & highlight & cite your references like a term paper & to the women that say all Men are dogs we'll give a Dog a treat a blowjob until he can't feel his feet LMAO!! If my girl has been great and laughs when I make jokes has sex on demand we have sit on my moustache Monday LOL but no seriously if you don't do it the next will if you grab your mans dick suck the black or pink off of it he's less likely to play elsewhere. I'm no expert but I would say most cheat cause they feel their relationship lacks something.
*You to be happy always listen regardless of what we say if we aren't happy you aren't happy nothing is worse for us than when our woman is pissed cause guess what no sex on demand no good behavior blowjobs no baby can you make me a sammich nothing LOL your happiness & laughter joy all that goes hand in hand with ours not only cause we love you but we need you... You've been a great Audience have a blessed day!!