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The way you love the way you give the way you touch the way you walk the way you smile the way you laugh the way I get when I hear your voice when I see your face the way when I see your face it takes my breath away the way it should be the way it will be the way you support me in all I do the way I miss you when I'm not with you the way I yearn for your touch for your kiss the way I feel this cant be bliss the way I picture life without you and I'd feel incomplete the way I know I can't be apart from you or my heart would break the way I'd do anything and everything to keep you near the way I know I can't picture living without you here. The way I put your life before mine we can show each other love without valentine we don't need a holiday to show the world we love each other that we Are each other that we are one we are a unit a family a bond that no one can break I can't help but feel and know we build something great that no matter how hard it was tri…

Know appreciate & Love what you have before its gone!

Sometimes we get too comfy In a relationship and forget why we got the relationship in the first place if you lose your spark do whatever you have to to rekindle the fire to bring back that light in each others eyes cause there is nothing worse than figuring out what you had once its gone 

A real woman can do it herself but a real man won't let her!!

Amen a real man is the first to stand up & support his woman in all she does it's that simple if you don't believe in her who will? We are supposed to pick our women up not put them down or belittle them. With that said ladies you should put yourselves in that position to be picked up if you're always negative and looking for negativity how do you expect your man to be positive about you or your relationship?A real man will want to do these things for you without thought and effortlessly you just have to let him. Let the past go all we have is today and hope for tomorrow let that man hold you up while you golf him down instead of holding yourself down by overthinking EVERYTHING those who are in our everyday lives are there for a reason make them want to be there. 

A Real Man

As a man yes your lady is and should be your queen she is your universe she is the center of your attention she should never have to tell you she needs to be your main focus of attention she should know and feel that she is just that give your woman your time and devotion and faithfulness she will give you the world she will build you a kingdom just remember she's your foundation to build as a man with bricks that foundation must and will not ever be broken she deserves to feel like a queen and treated as if you would want to be treated she deserves the world..

Love?!! Part II

Love was just a word until I heard it from you it was just a saying you felt that you needed to say just to get the other person to get off your back but when I heard it from you the room was silent those were the only words I heard cause it was real it was genuine you gave me the kind of love I have always wanted but never received I was the man that every one gave up on but you believed in me when no one did you did not seek to bring drama to my life all you ever wanted was to bring me happiness joy and see a smile on my face..
But it's about you your happiness I'd like to think that I am and can become better at being your happiness your sane place in this world that's designed to keep us all insane. 
See love brings us together love brings us closer love makes us learn from our mistakes love makes us come to a common place a common ground love turns frowns upside down but what love does more than anything it forgives it cherishes our times together and gives us a bond th…

Thought of the Day inner beauty out shines exterior beauty

No matter how fine you are how big your booty or boobies are how tight your kitty is doesn't matter if you are the ugliest person on the inside I honestly feel bad for those with no self esteem who think they are ugly on the outside but beautiful on the inside cause the media portrays you have to look act eat a certain way to be beautiful and that's not true there are way more beautiful on the outside ugly on the inside people than there is anyone else. What it comes down to is counting your blessings looking in the mirror and saying I'm beautiful I love me for me cause that is the only way anyone else is going to love you!!! Love yourself after all there is and will only be one you!

Where I'm at in my life!

I've recently found myself in self inflicted drama meaning I brought it to myself they say on a mission your worst enemy is idle time so I recently enrolled in online schooling double majoring in business leadership & entrepreneurship the reason being I'm a leader in my line of work now and intend to head up a successful conglomerate someday so my family doesn't need or want for a damn thing with that said I'm just to the point where I can't & won't do drama for those that really know me they know that we never really argued a day in our lives and recently it seems that's all I have done so I stopped and looked at my life like a outsider looking in & I analyzed the problem it stems from my current job & the years of bullshit that I have tolerated there that's why I initially got back into schooling I was seeking a new career path and bam A blessing from God school fell into my lap and I am running with it till my feet hurt. I applied to …

Not a Perfect Man But Perfect For You...

As men we aren't going to come out and say "Damn baby I wish you appreciated me more" I think we know that as long as we're on our jobs we know that we are very much appreciated but as your relationship coach I'm going to tell you that knowing and feeling appreciated and being told it every now and again makes us feel awesome it makes us want to conquer the world cause we know we have someone at home {Our Foundation} that believes in us believes in our cause and its the little things like that that separate you from the other women the thirsty on websites cause we know we have a good ass woman & that we aren't going anywhere so if he makes you happy you can't see life without him just tell him every now and again not everyday just when you feel it cause when it's forced that's when it's fake you can say you respect your mans hustle all day all he does but it also can feel non authentic.
Cause if he's out in the world working his ass off…

The Capricorn Man.....

The Capricorn man prefers to live by the rules. Extremely determined and goal oriented, he believes in following well-laid plans to achieve success. Frivolities don't appeal to Capricorn much, as he is very serious and practical about attaining what he wants most: respect, social status and financial security. He'll often lose himself in achieving his goals, but he'll do so with honesty, diligence and integrity.
The Goat is often a loner who permits few people into his inner circle, and many Capricorns are shy to boot. Because of Capricorn's suspicious nature, you'll have to prove your trustworthiness before he accepts you as a friend. Once you've accomplished this feat, a Capricorn man will be your loyal, dependable, supportive companion. If you ever break the bond of trust, however, don't count on getting a second chance. The Goat will move on and never look back.
The Capricorn man is often seen as cold and emotionally aloof, but this i…

Thought Of The Day!!

1. Make Peace with your past so it doesn't screw with your present so true when you bring the past present you are stuck in the past drink some prune juice & let the shit goooooooo!
2.exactly who cares what others think of you what matters to you and the world is what you think of yourself head high till you get a nosebleed 
3.Time heals it really does you have to be willing to let it and let things go some people hold on to everything and wonder why nothing in their lives changes move on be strong only time will tell but when you dwell there is no time cause you're stuck in he past 
4.if you haven't walked a mile in my shoes you can't pretend to know what I've gone through so don't judge me that's Gods job and stop comparing your life mostly your relationships to others any woman who portrays a perfect relationship isn't in one relationships require work the determination to be on a common ground and that's not always easy it takes patience. 


Love what is love love is unconditional love is forever giving love is being by someone's side when they are at their best just as we'll as being there at their worst love doesn't know color creed race or religion love doesn't know age love doesn't know a time and place for when you fall for it but when you do you do hard love is giving to someone in need love is learning a persons likes and dislikes love is letting go of things you love for someone else's happiness just to keep them happy love is putting their needs wants above your own love is believing in them when no one else does love is when you and that person you love are the only ones that matter in this crazy world love is the smile you get from your child when they see your face love is the smile they put on your face just from being in their presence love is hitting rock bottom and rising to the top together united we stand divided we fall Love is the willingness to push all bullshit to the side and…

A couple that Grinds Together Shines Together!

To me the grind is a terrible thing to waste it's everything when your life is hectic you have the grind mentality lets get this money with that said a woman on your side that matches your grind is perfect for an ambitious man it really is. We like to motivate and love to be motivated. It's that simple...I think that if we stand up united and work our asses off in life then once we hit our victory lap hand n hand we need to shine together. 
It's always gonna be about the hard work the dedication the motivation with me.  As a man there is always room for improvement and if you are not improving each day by becoming a better man then you are stuck! Get out your own way to become the best man you can be We must EVOLVE grind yes shine yes but without evolution we are all a mess!

Loyalty is Everything! A Gentleman's Guide

Listen I'm far from perfect but I do believe in love with that said I believe in staying loyal faithful & true in your relationship as I said I'm far from perfect but I had to learn the hard way not being on the same page can just be one major headache.

So it's my job as a gentleman to get inside my woman's head see where she is act because there is no reason to cheat with communication she can be everything that you feel you are missing in one person.

And to me that's the issue with cheating we feel we are missing something when in reality we are not we aren't missing a damn thing. That is when we as men just need to grow up be a MAN or don't be in a relationship it's that simple.

And when you are put on this earth and never really taught how to be a man or your role models weren't actually men themselves you have to learn the hard way.

What I've learned in my short time
On this planet is this if she loves you she LOVES you if she's hurt…

Real Women Walk in Purpose!

Amen this will be one of the many things I will teach my daughter never ever as long as you are a real woman do you have to chase anything in life except money!! When you have that light that glow that respect for yourself that respect for how you carry yourself all that brightness and following comes your way on its own!

No woman should ever have to chase a man he should be delighted and thrilled to be in your presence it should be his honor to be in your life.....

If you find yourself chasing a man you have to ask yourself why?!! What caused this and what do I need to do to change it?

Walk in purpose to me means not only walk in purpose but have a purpose in life a passion a goal a dream that you aspire to make a reality and I do believe when you're on a mission in life everything else falls into place!

Respect Value Yourselves command respect and it will be given to the utmost but also walk & stand in purpose..


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I just Wanna Love You.....

We've had our ups our downs but I just want to love you no relationship is ever perfect but when two people decide to put everything aside for love they can be perfect for each other they learn to put their own feelings and insecurities aside and learn to love one another again. 
If there were a handbook a guide on love I feel like it would say no one else matters but them so show them in actions not words there are gonna be people who don't want to see you two happy you two together but fight fight for what you love fight for what you believe in fight until your heart stops beating. 
I don't expect the perfect partner mate best friend in life I expect her to be her and for me to love her for her and let her know that she isn't just good enough she's perfect for me she completes me & that's all that matters "They don't know about us" they don't know the special bond we share they don't know the conversations we share they don't know …