Here's the mentality that I have that you need to grasp when I wake up in the morning start my daily grind I'm not doing it for me I'm doing it as the man of my family which I've been since I was around 9 years old. I'm that go to person in my family and just like the metaphor I used for my current career situation im the glue that holds it all together once the glue is gone its a wrap its up to me to do what I do do it well and not only represent my family but hold them down that is a responsibility I wear proudly and that's why there is always a smile on my face no one can take that away from me yes there are people who say you do too much of this too much of that but it's my responsibility to do just that!
And a real woman is gonna respect that love that admire that and cherish the time she has with you your work ethic inspires her the already inspired she knows that in due time you are all hers and she would much rather lose you and your time to work over the streets or some other female.
The wifey type respect your grown man she loves it she doesn't want to provide for your grown ass she knows you're at work she misses the hell out of you but doesn't want to bother you ate doesn't time your text reply or say oh you must be busy these are signs of needing medication lol.
Jokes aside its about finding a common ground a mutual love & respect & you can get through anything life throws your way together!