A lot of women who say they are ready for a real man aren't always ready they are too used to the games the lies the cheating to recognize a real genuine man is in their presence.They also wonder why, why does this dude want me what's his motive what is he out to get. It takes a real ass genuine man to have the patience to be with a woman scorned cause no matter how good you are to her she's still gonna have the past in the back of her head. The reason I say it takes a real man is cause most men run at the first sight of drama or something they don't like. A real man is gonna be there by your side trying to understand. But don't you think that once he's stayed put up with a lot that he should be given the benefit of the doubt to not bring your past present?!Respect isn't given its earned and to never be broken so if your dude earns your respect is it that you just can't help yourself to overthink everything? I know a lot of scorned women think they don't deserve a good man so they settle for that piece of shit that treats them like shit & although I know that's what you are used to a real man is gonna see in you what you don't he knows your invaluable because you came past all the circumstances thrown at you standing up if you don't see the beauty in yourself can you at least see the admiration a real man has for your courage! To leave that man that has given you nothing but headaches in life the man that has laid his hands on you cheated on you that in itself is enough to blow anyones mind! Leaving is very hard especially once you got comfortable with someone so like I said let that man love you for you be with you for you and see the good in you when you think it's all bad and no one wants you.