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What is love?

Love is sacrifice love is acceptance love is understanding the person that you are with it is giving more than taking and most of all it's not about YOU! When we are blessed to meet someone in life that we want to build with grow with we have to accept the fact that up until we came along that person had a life they had dreams they had goals and we were blessed enough for them to let us be apart of that!

Trying to change someone into who you want them to be will never be healthy in any relationship!

That's why I don't get the women who expect this expect that you shouldn't expect anything from your man he should want to do things willingly!

I was speaking with a co worker who's significant other just bought them a 400,000 house and she was telling me how she expects a Vvs 1 internally flawless diamond real soon if you don't know anything about diamonds that's basically a perfect stone that can cost anywhere from 50K and up and that just blows my mind!

To me love isn't about taking its about giving the woman who ask for nothing deserves everything and to me that's what love is about I think women who demand this and that need to go get it their damn selves remember having a good man is a honor there are some girls that if they were with the same guy would be happy with a lifesaver ring he bought a house saying I want to build a life with you!




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Anonymous said…
Amen! You said it... Love is acceptance! If you love someone you accept them for who they are not what they have or what you can get out of them. You accept them for who they were and where they've been, no judgements, because a real man/woman will realize who they were & where they've been makes them the person they are today... The one they love. You accept them for who they want to be & you support them & help them in becoming that person.

I think too many people place importance on things. He/she must love me because they spent all this money on me... That's not love! That's hush money lol Let me buy her this so she'll stop b*tching cause I left my socks on the floor.

Love doesn't cause a dime, all it takes is some of your time. I don't know, maybe I'm an exception when it comes to that stuff, but I could really care less. Material things don't mean crap. If I had to choose between a ring & spending time with my man... I'll always chose my man.

That ring can't hold me or kiss me on the forehead, or whisper in my ear or make me cum for that matter lol Yeah show me with actions not material possessions.

It does make me wonder if she would still be with him if he were to lose everything. Would she stand beside him for richer or poorer or just the richer part.

~Leukothea
1EntrePROnegro said…
That's the honest truth!
Anonymous said…
I ain't never lied lol

~Leukothea

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