Saturday, May 25, 2013

It ain't none of your Friends Business






So I'm having a conversation with one my employees and she is telling me how her friends are knocking her relationship of year and a half cause the dude isn't Christian when the girl
Who is saying this is sleeping with Dudes twice her age and taking it in the butt only sexually lol sad but true!
And I have to say its none of your friends dam business on your relationship if your man/woman makes you feel
Whole loved and respects you then your friends should be the first to be happy for you cause if he treats you well loves you for you & is with you not cheating being a honest man loving you that's all that matters!
When friends talk shit
On your relationship it's cause they are insecure in themselves and ultimately jealous of your relationship no woman or man that is happy in love is going to hate on a happy couple they want you to feel what they feel if you have hate in any way shape or form its cause that person wants your life or just doesn't understand happiness misery loves company and if someone would rather see you miserable than happy they are not really your friend.
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8 comments:

Anonymous said...

I agree with you. Having been in an abusive relationship I remember feeling like I had to defend my boyfriend. I now understand my friends & family were just trying to get me to see what they saw, but I couldn't because I was too busy defending him against their attacks.

If it works for them & they are happy why should anyone else care. I don't get the misery loves company attitude either, because if your happy I'm happy for you.

1EntrePROnegro said...

Exactly sometimes I feel like family means well but at the same time it's your life to live and we all have to learn our own lessons sometimes family wants to
Tell us when right but when in love it seems we have blinders on live and learn!

Anonymous said...

Yeah, love is blind & hind sight is 20/20. One time someone asked me what I would do if "the one that got away" came back into my life and I truthful answered I'd let him break my heart a thousand times over again. Why is that? Truth be told I believe in him. I believe he is a good person with a huge heart and honestly cares about people and I guess that's what keeps me coming back for more. Btw this man is not my abusive ex lol

1EntrePROnegro said...

That's awesome open up your heart & it will open up your mind its that simple maybe the new guy can mend what's broken of your heart :-)

Anonymous said...

So true. When I was in my 7 yr relationship, my family would always tell me that my bf was a no good, lazy s.o.b, be talking him down, but I would defend him because he was my man and I loved him no matter what people said. Sometimes I would tell him its us against them and we will make it and we proved it to them... they wanted us to break up within months, but we made it through years. Unfortunately we couldn't mend and went our separate ways.

1EntrePROnegro said...

Hey live and learn all break ups aren't bad me and my ex 10 years in the game and it was bad she treated me like shit but I stuck cause I'm loyal in all I do when we split it broke my heart I didn't leave my house for like 6 months quit my job all that my family too told me she was no good I didn't speak to my mom nearly 5 years cause of her I was down till the very end as I feel you should be cause a relationship isn't just you and them its y'all against the world and look we both came out better people how bad I was treated taught me to be a gentleman treat others how I want to be treated and that's what I live by!

Anonymous said...

That's deep, but I feel u. Since the break up 2 years ago, my good friend told me that I need time to heal because I went thru hell with that guy... I would put him on the highest plateau because I loved him like no other; and yeah he treated me like shit as well but as the good woman as I was and still am today, attitude or no attitude, I stuck by my man. But that break up left us both in tears and I know his no good family was happy that we broke up, but the fact is that whenever we argued, break ups to make ups, we made it work without letting no one knew what was going on because we let too many people butt into our business and it was time for the no-sayers to butt out of our business for good.

1EntrePROnegro said...

Exactly the end of the day you not only need time to heal but people need to mind their own damn business get themselves some business to have as well!

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Saturday, May 25, 2013

It ain't none of your Friends Business






So I'm having a conversation with one my employees and she is telling me how her friends are knocking her relationship of year and a half cause the dude isn't Christian when the girl
Who is saying this is sleeping with Dudes twice her age and taking it in the butt only sexually lol sad but true!
And I have to say its none of your friends dam business on your relationship if your man/woman makes you feel
Whole loved and respects you then your friends should be the first to be happy for you cause if he treats you well loves you for you & is with you not cheating being a honest man loving you that's all that matters!
When friends talk shit
On your relationship it's cause they are insecure in themselves and ultimately jealous of your relationship no woman or man that is happy in love is going to hate on a happy couple they want you to feel what they feel if you have hate in any way shape or form its cause that person wants your life or just doesn't understand happiness misery loves company and if someone would rather see you miserable than happy they are not really your friend.
@1entrepronegro

Comment let me know what you think...



- Posted using BlogPress from my iPhone

8 comments:

Anonymous said...

I agree with you. Having been in an abusive relationship I remember feeling like I had to defend my boyfriend. I now understand my friends & family were just trying to get me to see what they saw, but I couldn't because I was too busy defending him against their attacks.

If it works for them & they are happy why should anyone else care. I don't get the misery loves company attitude either, because if your happy I'm happy for you.

1EntrePROnegro said...

Exactly sometimes I feel like family means well but at the same time it's your life to live and we all have to learn our own lessons sometimes family wants to
Tell us when right but when in love it seems we have blinders on live and learn!

Anonymous said...

Yeah, love is blind & hind sight is 20/20. One time someone asked me what I would do if "the one that got away" came back into my life and I truthful answered I'd let him break my heart a thousand times over again. Why is that? Truth be told I believe in him. I believe he is a good person with a huge heart and honestly cares about people and I guess that's what keeps me coming back for more. Btw this man is not my abusive ex lol

1EntrePROnegro said...

That's awesome open up your heart & it will open up your mind its that simple maybe the new guy can mend what's broken of your heart :-)

Anonymous said...

So true. When I was in my 7 yr relationship, my family would always tell me that my bf was a no good, lazy s.o.b, be talking him down, but I would defend him because he was my man and I loved him no matter what people said. Sometimes I would tell him its us against them and we will make it and we proved it to them... they wanted us to break up within months, but we made it through years. Unfortunately we couldn't mend and went our separate ways.

1EntrePROnegro said...

Hey live and learn all break ups aren't bad me and my ex 10 years in the game and it was bad she treated me like shit but I stuck cause I'm loyal in all I do when we split it broke my heart I didn't leave my house for like 6 months quit my job all that my family too told me she was no good I didn't speak to my mom nearly 5 years cause of her I was down till the very end as I feel you should be cause a relationship isn't just you and them its y'all against the world and look we both came out better people how bad I was treated taught me to be a gentleman treat others how I want to be treated and that's what I live by!

Anonymous said...

That's deep, but I feel u. Since the break up 2 years ago, my good friend told me that I need time to heal because I went thru hell with that guy... I would put him on the highest plateau because I loved him like no other; and yeah he treated me like shit as well but as the good woman as I was and still am today, attitude or no attitude, I stuck by my man. But that break up left us both in tears and I know his no good family was happy that we broke up, but the fact is that whenever we argued, break ups to make ups, we made it work without letting no one knew what was going on because we let too many people butt into our business and it was time for the no-sayers to butt out of our business for good.

1EntrePROnegro said...

Exactly the end of the day you not only need time to heal but people need to mind their own damn business get themselves some business to have as well!