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Foundation.....

I say it all the time a REAL woman is the foundation to everything we build as men. I'm talking that lover best friend tell her anything type....A open honest yet playful relationship keeps a Grown man sane. She's not worried about who you talk to on your social networks in real life cause she knows her man inside out and she knows because she is secure in herself her man is going nowhere unless she wants him to..And a real woman doesn't want to let her builder of the foundation go she knows where you've been and where your going as a man and she loves that she respects that most of all admires that!Life is short and if you are blessed in life with someone that completes affects loves respects and doesn't stress you you have to hold on tight. Ups downs it's gonna be alright cause you are in it for the long haul together as a unit...

That's what a foundation is to me everything you want in life get in life are blessed with in life are based on your woman... There are things you can tell your woman you wouldn't tell most that's why she is able to have your children and if you are blessed with children in your foundation based on your unit that unity will carry on for life.

Moral your woman your family are you they are your heart they are your blood and most of all as a man it's your job to pick them up it's your job to hold them down and it's your job to keep them as the protector by any means till the end of time....

Riq



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Anonymous said…
Foundation is everything. If there are cracks in the foundation they will do nothing but get bigger & bigger, until there are nothing left but pieces.

Recently I found myself with a crush on an amazing person. He knows just how amazing he is and other fact that I have feelings for him.

Problem is I keep looking for the end results & we haven't even started to build a foundation yet. I don't know how he sees me, but I do know I haven't been allowing him to really see me.

I'm so concerned with how the story ends I'm not being present in the present. He hasn't seen the kind, caring, funny, beautiful, smart person I am because I haven't tried just being his friend.

I really wish we could go back to the days when I just posted on his blog & he didn't know who I was. I felti could just talk, and not worry about what he thought, because it didn't matter, he didn't know who I was. Now I over think everything.

If I wasn't so scared of getting hurt I could just let the shit go, but I don't even really know who he is. Is he the person in his blog, the sensitive, caring, beautiful soul I'm falling for, or is he really the flirt he is on social networks? It's not even the flirting that bothers me, it's that he doesn't do that with me. But is that because the flirting really does mean nothing & I do mean something?

Doesn't matter, I have work to do on me. I finally realize what an awesome person I am, but physically I'm not okay with where I'm at & I have a few goals I need to focus on.

I've decided to take a huge step back. Stop reading too much into things like a simple "Happy Valentines Day" text from him, to mean more than being friendly because I wanted it to mean more. I'm just going to sit back & let things happen naturally. I'd rather have him as a friend than not at all.

Regardless if we will be friends, lovers or nothing at all, I know I will continue to learn lessons from him. He had helped me grow so much as a person, I will be forever grateful.

~Leukothea

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