so I posted a "ladies whats your definition of a REAL Man" question
and from what I gathered most all the women that answered JOB was one of the first selections.!!!!
and honestly I couldnt agree with you more if your a MAN your ultimate goal should be to have a family kids wife dog swimming pool his and her Mercedes..and to me in my opinion your not a man if you cant provide for your family period.
now its not the 60's and im not saying be a stay at home wife but i am saying this as YOUR MAN im just that your Man im your lover you protector your financer.
And all I need is for you to be my banker ill pay all the bills im just terrible at balancing my checkbook although ive gotten better with the iphone/ipad app.
a relationship is 500/500 but honestly when I was in my long term relationship I loved taking care of all the bills the groceries because I watched my mama do it my whole life for us so it feels good to give back.
Id let my girl pay for dinner every now and again but with that said money isnt the key to everything but you are not a man always asking your girl to hold something LOL
Goals that was another huge one I read and your right ladies most men when we think of goals its getting at the bad bitches one by one.but what ive learned in my short life is you get the goals accomplished the bad bitches pile in on some groupie shit haha
its a lot of us out here still selling dimes and nicks thats not a career like Katt Williams said if your not on coke by now its time to retire hahahaaha and how u selling what u smoke?LMao
thanks for all the replies I appreciate it a lot of people look at me and says hes doing something with himself and to be honest I dont even think im at half of what im capable of so its always good to read what others say and think.
Because no matter how much we think we are the shit every man can get better everyday and can change tweak certain things to make themselves better.
My biggest flaw is I work too much and im taking steps to make myself better there by simply taking a little more me time here and there
the bad part is that im like a female in the aspect of me time is shopping lmfao but I guess thats the fruits of our labor....