I can attest from watching my mother that trying your hardest to hold onto what you see as your family does not always work I mean my pops when he lived with us in my younger years every chance he got he stepped out on my mom..
and this to me is not healthy because I noticed if one of us looked more like my dad as we grew older she would always love us but its like she had animosity towards us for what he did!
everyone has that fear that voice in the back of their head saying they dont wanna be alone whos gonna want a single parent with a kid what if this what if that and at that point you cant wonder what if your a parent you have to make the best move for you and yours ask yourself this if your with a person just cause whos not with you 900 percent arent you more alone than you would be single?
Be honest with yourself who cares what anyone else thinks a wise person once said the truth shall set you free.
Im not a parent but I can honestly say Id rather be alone and make sure my kids lived a good life over being with someone who did not want to be in my life at all
Nobody wants to be alone everyone wants the story book ending the happy family life but sometimes that just is not reality its not good or bad but if breaking up your home is for the best you gotta do it.
No one owns you once your an adult and life is short its up to you to decide whats best in it on your short time here!